As the holidays arrive, hearts are filled with joy for the Season and sadness for those grieving the loss of a loved one. It does not matter how long the person has been gone, days, months or years, do not fill the space emptied by the passing of a loved one. The Holiday season, serves as a reminder of the empty, space, in the place at the table, the Christmas stocking, the shared memories and mostly in our hearts. In, part, I think it is because, during the holidays, we come together from wherever we are to be with our loved ones, so their absence is felt all the more intensely at this time of year, because we are unable to be together.
We can however, share memories of our loved ones, funny stories, look at photos and remember the love. By not mentioning them, it is like the Elephant in the room, every one knows it is there, and by avoiding it, it makes it harder than just acknowledging it.
So when friends and loved ones mention the loss loved ones, share fond memories, offer hugs, it is truly a great gift.
Happy Holidays